Okay you have been broken up for awhile and it is time to make contact and try to take the first step of getting back together. What do you do first? What do you say to get a date or meeting? So what does getting robbed at gunpoint have to do with getting your ex back?
Let us say that you have made contact with your ex and you want to set up the "first date." You need to make a positive lasting impression so the date HAS to be "emotionally charged." You may only get only one shot at this, so you have to do it right!
How about dinner and a movie...sounds BORING"...and it will not create a lasting bond with your ex. Remember, you want to create a bond and rekindle the flame that once existed. You want this date to seem like several mini-dates all rolled up in one spanning several hours.
Emotionally charged experiences create a bond with the person that you share them with. Dinner and a movie just will not cut it. The dinner, movie and you will be forgotten in a couple of days. Look at it this way, the last time you went to a great movie do you remember the movie attendant or the last time you were in the bank do you remember the person in line in front or behind you. Probably not... Me either.
Suppose one day when you went to the bank it was "robbed at gunpoint." The robbers are anxious and nervous acting, waving their guns around and shouting for "everyone hit the floor and stay down." The poor bank teller is so nervous that she cannot open the cash drawers or safe. The robbers are becoming more agitated. Everyone is screaming and crying and some are even praying for their lives.
The tension and fear are so thick that you can cut it with a knife. You are lying on the floor trembling as silence falls over the bank customers. The silence is so loud that it is deafening. You never heard it get that quiet before.
You ask yourself "Where are the robbers?"
"Are they behind me?"
"Will I be shot or even killed?"
"Have they left the building or are they still here?"
You are afraid to even move. Hesitantly, you roll your eyes to look behind you only to see a sweet looking older lady that reminds you of your grandmother, lying on the floor right next to you. She is trembling, crying and praying softly to herself. Realizing that she is even more scared than yourself, you reach out your hand to gently take her hand into yours. You give her hand a gentle squeeze and whisper, "It will be all right, we will be okay".
Is there something you can learn by being robbed at gunpoint? Think about it, will you ever forget that little old lady laying next to you on the cold bank floor as it was being robbed?
Even more, do you think she will ever forget you? The only person in the world that comforted her as she feared for her life. Not in a million years!
This may have been an exaggerated example but you get the point. This will be an experience that neither you nor her will ever forget. I am not suggesting that you go out and rob a bank with your ex but this is the kind of "emotionally charged" first date that you need. The kind of date that will not be soon forgotten...it will make your ex want to come back for more.
You can learn to have an "emotional charged" first date and other techniques to help you get your ex back.
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