There are tons of ways to approach love and relationship advice, and often the people closest to you give you the most biased advice you could get. To them you could do no wrong. While it's great to get boosted up by your loved ones in bad times, chances are they're just giving you the advice you want to hear and not the advice that you actually need. Sometimes you need to hear the things about yourself and the way you're doing things that aren't very positive.
Love is a double-edged sword, it can take you over could nine and drag you down to what feels like hell in the same day. When you're not only in love, but in a relationship, both the negative and positive emotions you both have are intensified at least tri-fold. Everyone loves to be in love, but no one loves the downfalls that come with being in love. And it's hard to take when things don't exactly work out the way you expected them to.
The best love and relationship advice I, or anyone else can give you, is:
1.Trust your own judgment. If things don't feel right, they probably aren't. Also, if you are fighting all the time, figure out the real reasons and decide if they are relationship-breaking or not.
2.Know when you're doing something wrong. Both sides in a relationship can be doing something wrong, but it is not your partner's responsibility to make sure you know when you're the one in the wrong. Learn to look at the situation fairly.
3.Try not to get so worked up in yourself that you forget your partner has wants and needs too. Both men and women are guilty of this, and it brings the end to relationships all the time.
4.Be open and honest with one another. Communication is a big part of keeping a lasting relationship and if neither one of you will open up and let the other one know what's going on, you're never going to get anywhere emotionally that either one or both of you want to get.
5.Even if you know you're better at something than your partner, don't rub it in. Even if you're leagues better. Putting down your lover can make them feel rejected, insulted, and in many cases offended. Keep your bragging or belittling in your head.
Love is a complicated game we play, and while there are no exact rules there are some things that affect almost everybody in the same ways. If everyone would actually listen to the love and relationship advice they get, the lovers and spouses of the world would be much better for it. If you want a happy relationship, there is no reason for you to let the responsibility of effort lie on the shoulders of your partner.
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